A millennial woman reflects on her five-year journey of dating, highlighting a disconnect between romantic intentions and actual commitment among potential partners. Despite being clear about her desire for a serious relationship, she often encounters individuals who prefer casual arrangements. She theorizes that the emotional and psychological trauma from the COVID-19 pandemic has contributed to a rise in 'situationships,' where people seek the benefits of romance without the responsibilities. This shift has led to a lack of practice in navigating interpersonal friction, resulting in flakiness and inconsistency in dating. To combat this, she advises singles to be discerning, avoid overinvesting too early, and ask specific questions to gauge a partner's true intentions. Ultimately, she emphasizes that real connection requires effort, commitment, and the willingness to embrace the challenges that come with it.