In a recent letter to agony aunt Jane Green, a newlywed husband shares his discomfort with his wife's choice of the nickname 'mommy' during their intimate moments. While she finds it a turn-on, he associates it with his mother, leading to a strong aversion. Jane Green offers insight into why such terms can be appealing, suggesting they may evoke feelings of safety and dominance rather than a parental association. She encourages the husband to communicate openly with his wife about his feelings, emphasizing that no one should feel pressured to engage in practices that make them uncomfortable. Green advises exploring alternative terms or actions that could evoke similar feelings for the wife without triggering the husband's discomfort. The couple is encouraged to find a compromise that respects both their perspectives, ensuring a fulfilling intimate life.