Singer Akon, known for his hits in the 2000s, has opened up about his polyamorous lifestyle in a recent interview on the We Need to Talk podcast. He revealed that he has multiple wives, although he did not disclose the exact number. A key rule in his relationships is that he is the 'only man,' meaning his wives cannot have other partners. Akon stressed the importance of hierarchy within this dynamic, stating that his first wife, Tomeka Thiam, whom he is currently divorcing, is to be respected above all others. He referred to her as 'the queen' and emphasized that any violation of this respect would lead to consequences. The singer also noted that maintaining open communication is vital for the relationship to function smoothly, allowing everyone to express their needs and boundaries. Despite the complexities of managing multiple relationships, Akon believes that each wife benefits from his presence and support, underscoring the need for maturity and understanding in such arrangements.