Living in Oxfordshire, the author initially felt disconnected from her community despite having family nearby. After joining the parent-teacher association (PTA) at her children's school, she discovered the joy of volunteering. Initially skeptical about the PTA's dynamics, she found a welcoming group that allowed her to engage without pressure. Her experiences, from running a glitter face-paint stall to organizing school events, helped her connect with other parents and learn more about her children's lives. Additionally, volunteering as a marshal at local parkrun provided her with a sense of belonging and appreciation from the community. Through these activities, she has not only met new people but also improved her mood and outlook on community involvement. She emphasizes that volunteering is a fulfilling way to build connections and create a supportive environment.