A Nigerian father recently sparked controversy by canceling his daughter's introduction ceremony with her suitor, citing a 'red flag' in the young man's behavior. The father was washing his car when the suitor greeted him but did not offer assistance, which the father interpreted as a lack of respect and readiness for marriage. He argued that just as women are expected to demonstrate their suitability through behavior during visits to their future in-laws, men should also show willingness to help with domestic tasks. This incident was shared on social media, leading to divided opinions among users. Some supported the father's stance, emphasizing that small gestures often indicate deeper values, while others criticized the decision as an overreaction. The discussion also highlighted cultural differences in expectations surrounding marriage, particularly among various Nigerian ethnic groups, such as the Yoruba, Ibo, and Hausa. The debate reflects broader societal values regarding respect and responsibility in relationships.