In a recent letter, a woman expressed her frustration over her husband's recent purchase of a classic car, which he has long desired. He bought the car after seeing it in town and has since devoted his weekends to its maintenance, including polishing and attending car shows. While she acknowledges that the car brings him joy, she feels it has taken over their lives, impacting their finances and relationship. The wife is concerned about the mounting repair bills and the car's impracticality, as it cannot be driven in the rain or parked near other vehicles. She seeks advice on how to communicate her feelings without dampening his enthusiasm. In response, advice columnist Annie Lane suggests that while hobbies can be beneficial, they should not overshadow the marriage. She recommends establishing a budget and time allocation for the car to ensure their relationship remains a priority.