At 30, the author faced a pivotal moment when her agent urged her to move from New York City to Santa Monica, California, for better career opportunities in acting. Initially resistant, she packed her bags and relocated with her German shepherd, Gus. Shortly after her arrival, the Northridge earthquake struck, making her question her decision. However, as she began auditioning, she found success in theater and television roles. A chance meeting with a charming neurologist led to a weekend getaway, but his request for her to leave acting prompted her to end the relationship. On a flight back to Los Angeles, she met Don, a filmmaker with a supportive spirit. Their connection blossomed during the flight, and they exchanged numbers, leading to coffee dates and shared interests, including hiking and film screenings. Over time, the author realized that her desire to return to New York faded as she built a life with Don. After six months of dating, they moved in together, eventually marrying and settling in Glassell Park, where they continue to thrive. This journey illustrates the unexpected paths love can take and the importance of finding someone who accepts you as you are.