In a recent letter, a concerned friend expressed shock after a 30-year friendship soured when she declined to support her friend's application for a restraining order against someone she plays volleyball with. The friend believes her legal expertise, gained over 40 years, justified her decision not to provide a declaration, as she lacks personal knowledge of the alleged harassment. However, the response from Eric Thomas emphasizes the importance of empathy and the need to recognize the seriousness of stalking and harassment. He argues that the friend's refusal to support her long-time friend may inadvertently align her with the alleged stalker. Thomas advises that the friend should reflect on her relationship with the volleyball player and consider offering an apology to mend the rift, as trust has been compromised. Ultimately, he underscores that friendship requires understanding and support, especially in distressing situations like this.