Recent studies indicate a global decline in sexual activity, particularly in countries like the United States and the United Kingdom. This phenomenon, termed a 'sex recession,' raises questions about women's pleasure and societal attitudes towards sexuality. Historically, women's sexual desires were often viewed negatively, with ancient Greeks and Romans perceiving them as 'nymphomaniacs' whose appetites needed control. Medical theories, such as the 'wandering womb,' suggested that women required regular sexual activity for health, reinforcing societal norms that dictated their sexual experiences. In contrast, modern narratives often frame women's sexuality as suppressed, needing to be 'excavated.' The author, drawing from historical texts and contemporary research, underscores the importance of recognizing the complexity of women's sexual experiences and desires. Economic stress and societal expectations contribute to a decline in sexual encounters today, particularly for women who face unique challenges. Ultimately, the author advocates for a shift in focus from the frequency of sexual activity to the quality of sexual experiences, encouraging a more nuanced understanding of women's pleasure.